Orthopedic Roulette and the Joy of the Game

Maria stands at the pickleball net holding a racket.
“Say yes to joy, even if it comes with an ice pack.”

There’s something delightfully ridiculous about finding yourself in the thick of a game you used to think was for “old people.” That’s how I ended up loving pickleball. Yep, pickleball. Equal parts tennis, ping-pong, and orthopedic roulette, it has become a surprising joy in this season of my life.

Don’t get me wrong; I’m no pro out there. I’m more likely to spend time laughing at myself than keeping score. But there’s a magic in it: the paddle in my hand, the friendly smack of the ball, the back-and-forth rhythm that somehow awakens the teenager in me while my knees loudly remind me I am not, in fact, a teenager anymore.

The best part isn’t even the game. It’s the spontaneous community that forms over shared enthusiasm and shared aches. I love the playful teasing and the high-fives for mediocre shots. It’s like recess for grownups, and yes, sometimes we pull a muscle at recess. and of course, there are refreshments after a game (whether we kept score or not).

Embracing New Challenges

Every time I finish writing a book, I hold it in my hands and inevitably think of the chapter I should have included. This time, it’s pickleball. A Beautiful Second Act is about women embracing the unexpected turns and new joys in midlife and beyond. Believe me, there’s something metaphorical about charging the net at 60.

So, here’s my humble update to the book: try something new, even if it makes you feel a little silly. Laugh often. Stretch first. And say yes to joy, even if it comes with an ice pack.

Game on, friends!

Remembering Pope Francis

Like so many people around the world, I woke up to the news that Pope Francis has died. The news cycle will no doubt be in a continuous loop of commentary, filled with whatever bias that particular speaker may harbor. Everyone will have an opinion on his papacy and legacy. But what if we refocus, and instead of bias we consider encounter.

Pope Francis leaves a legacy of encounter, committed as he was to visiting marginalized communities, inter-religious dialogue, engaging the poor and vulnerable, and advocacy for migrants and refugees. This past Holy Thursday at his visit to Regina Coeli prison, he lamented not being able to wash the feet of prisoners this year.

The Gospel is a story of encounter. It is the story of God’s pursuit of humanity and the transformative meetings between Jesus and individuals, culminating in the ultimate encounter: Jesus’ death and resurrection, which opens the way for humanity to meet God intimately through grace. God continually seeks us, meeting us where we are, and transforming us through relationship.

In Evangelii Gaudium, Pope Francis exhorts that we are to be missionary disciples:

“Evangelisers thus take on the ‘smell of the sheep’ and the sheep are willing to hear their voice” (EG, 24)

Encounters with His Sheep

One of the charming ways that Pope Francis stepped out of the crowd and into personal encounter was in his delight when the youth took selfies with him. I’m not suggesting that these physical encounters were anything more than the joy of meeting the Pope, or the joy the Pope took in meeting the youth. What it definitely was, indeed continued to be, was the opportunity to be present, even for just a fleeting moment, to an individual or intimate group.

That is the gist of his papacy, a papacy filled with encounter. Perhaps there were hopes for a transformative papacy, an ushering in of reforms in a time when the church was steeped in controversy. Instead, Pope Francis smelled of his sheep.

A Surprise Selfie with the Pope

In 2015, I had the pleasure of meeting Pope Francis on his Apostolic trip to Cuba. His theme for this trip, Missionary of Mercy, was driven by his desire to be a witness to the message of mercy. It was a powerful message for a communist regime, but more so for the people of Cuba. It was a powerful opportunity for encounter.

Eternal rest grant unto him, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon him. May the souls of the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

Episode 8: Brilliance Behind the Scenes: Hedy Lamarr & Elisabeth Leseur

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We explore the quiet genius and hidden strength of two remarkable women: Hollywood star and inventor Hedy Lamarr, and Servant of God Elisabeth Leseur, a spiritual powerhouse whose interior life inspired a dramatic conversion. Host Maria Morera Johnson unpacks how these women, though worlds apart, each lived out a beautiful second act marked by perseverance, faith, and unseen impact. Their stories remind us that God often does His most powerful work behind the scenes.

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